Examples Of Chaos In Crossing To Safety

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Henry Adams states “chaos was the law of nature; order was the dream of man”. This statement is clearly used in the novel Crossing to Safety by Larry Morgan, and how this was his belief. However, the novel of Crossing to Safety is filled with chaotic times that happen in Larry Morgan and his wife’s life. This same chaos also affects his close friends who had their own struggles in their lives. This paper will look at how order would not have better for these couples, and how this chaos caused the couples to lose their dream of order. The dream that Larry and Sally had of a life of order for their marriage became overshadowed by the law of chaos and changed them for the better. In Crossing to Safety Larry and Sally were living in a dream, and …show more content…

In the book George signs a paper to take a loan for Fred Vincy and doesn’t consult his wife, and then comes the time when Fred can’t pay and the Garth’s decide to that they will have to deal with it instead of arguing (148, 157). This episode reveals a few things about the Garth’s. First it reveals the power of their relationship with each other. Caleb signed a loan without consulting his wife, but when things went wrong instead of his wife getting angry she decides with him that they must take care of the loan somehow. This shows that Susan truly loves her husband, because she doesn’t start a fight with him. Matters of money in a marriage causes a lot of grief and heartache, however in this marriage we see that this doesn’t apply to the Garths. Susan accepts Caleb’s mistake, and then they move forward. Caleb accepts his mistake and he moves forward. They show a great example of moving forward together. The main person that contributes to this relationship in this episode is most definitely Susan. She sacrifices for the greater good, and we learn from the text that she sacrifices “money scraped together for Alfred” (158). The important word from this is “scraped”. Scraping means to diligently gather money with the utmost care and frugality, and yet Susan is willing to sacrifice this money for the family. Sacrifice is a key trait that is needed in a good marriage, and being able to …show more content…

In the middle of the book the Garths had to make a tough decision concerning Fred Vincy’s work and their daughter, and they talk about what is best and Susan and Caleb both agree to give Fred work, and to let Mary decide who to marry (349-351). This episode shows how much Susan and Caleb trust each other. Trust is something that comes by open communication with one another, and the Garth’s show that they trust each other by openly communicating about this situation with Fred. They discuss not only the situation of Fred and what to do with him but also Mary. This shows further the trust they have in each other, because they are able to talk openly about their children’s future with one another. They do not try and hold back secrets from one another, and openly discuss their own opinions. For example, Susan tells her husband after finding that Mary likes Fred that “It is a pity for Mary, I think” (349). Susan is willing to express her dissatisfaction concerning this matter to her husband. This can be seen in the word “pity”. Pity is a word that expresses sorrow towards something. So, Susan is telling her husband that she is sorry that Mary likes Fred. If the Garths had no trust with each other than Susan would not have been willing to voice her opinion and regret to her husband, nor would Caleb be able to explain to her his idea of helping

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