Everyone Has a Secret

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Everyone has been judged or has judged others based on their appearances or actions before. People tend to base these judgments on male or female characteristics, labeling each person as they pass by. Many think that these characteristics have been long defined to match genders, and are not the cause of society’s influence. In Jean Kilbourne’s article, “’Two Ways a Woman Can Get Hurt’: Advertising and Violence,” and Michael Kimmel’s “’Bros Before Hos’: The Guy Code,” both authors effectively assess society’s influence on these specific gender roles and characteristics that each sex is to exhibit, using various rhetorical strategies.
In Kilbourne’s article, she discusses the issue that the women in advertisements are dehumanized and portrayed as sex objects, rather than women with rights and choices, “The main goal [of sex in advertising], as in pornography is usually power over another, either by the physical dominance or preferred status of men or what is seen as the exploitative power of female beauty and female sexuality” (420). Kilbourne highlights how these women are displayed, which leads to the rest of society thinking that it is acceptable for women to be treated the way they are depicted in these ads. In Kimmel’s article, he focuses his argument on men and which attributes they believe they are supposed to show, “The first thing someone usually says is ‘Don’t cry,’ then other similar phrases and ideas—never show your feelings, never ask for directions, never give up, never give in, be strong, be aggressive, show no fear, show no mercy, get rich, get even, get laid, win—easily follow after that” (462). Kimmel demonstrates that these men are forced to uphold their stoic selves to match society’s perception of males; otherw...

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...ut it would not necessarily be needed. The same goes for Kimmel, another credible source, who has a strong background in men and masculinity. Blatantly adding logos would make his article more powerful, but there is already enough support for the reader to agree with his statements. In short, both authors do an excellent job of using just two of the three appeals to persuade their audiences.
The topic of gender is always a heart-wrenching debacle, but when authors like Kilbourne and Kimmel displays the topics, it shows they are fully aware of the audience, matching it with the correct purpose and stance. They know which types of appeals are most appropriate for captivating the audience’s attention as well. All these elements combined together create an article that surely compels the reader to think twice about women in ads, or regular men, hiding their emotions.

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