Essay On Erikson's Theory

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Friendships between males and females are forbidden according to Islamic tradition. Men and women are normally separated during parties or gatherings. Even in school men and women are set apart to prevent any friendships between the sexes. women have instead remain close to the female family members and often visit each other 's homes. Men, however, are free to move about the country or cities and make friends with other men who are not family members. Even still, men tend to stick with their family members and while they might have one or two friends whom are not related, these friends are more acquaintances or colleges then actually friends. For instances, in my family I am close to my sisters even though I am far from them, I call my sisters …show more content…

You cannot rush children into adulthood, which is why a women must be of a certain age before she is to take over her own household as become a wife. Neither is it possible to slow the pace or to try to protect our children from the demands of life, In my culture you can see this in both ways, older men often marry younger women and so die leaving young boys in charge as the men in the household, however, they may not take on this role until they are fifteen-year-old or in Erikson 's model the fifth stage of development. This runs along with Erikson 's theory because like him my culture believes that there is a time for each task such as s time to take over or on a family of one’s …show more content…

On the other hand, if we do not move from one stage to the next smoothly, let 's say for instance my brother decided he was the one in charge and he owed a man a favor and used my sister to pay off that debt, losing me in the process, then we may develop maladaptation and malignancies, as well as endangered all our future development. A malignancy is the worse of the two and involves too little of the positive and too much of the negative aspect of the task, such as a person who cannot trust others, such as losing the respect of family members who are considered above outside friendship, my brother would have no one he could trust to leave in charge of his wife or children should he dies suddenly while his children were too young. only family can be trusted to do the right thing and take care of those we leave behind, without family one has nothing. A maladaptation is not quite as bad and involves too much of the positive and too little of the negative, such as a person who trusts too

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