Essay On Attraction And Attraction

Attraction plays a big role in everyone’s life and no one gets around it. It’s not just about thinking someone is appealing or good looking; it has a lot more science and psychological reasoning in it (Proximity and Attraction). When people make friends, it’s because they are somewhat attracted to the friend and if someone wants to be your friend, they find you somewhat attractive. Your friends influence your attraction and what you like in a significant other by the way they talk good and bad about people (Proximity and Attraction). The way someone looks, acts, smells, and many other things make people attracted to them or make them look more appealing to other people. Studies show that there are five different types of attraction; proximity, association, similarity, reciprocal liking, and physical attractiveness. However, there are more things that make you attracted to someone besides the five main types of attraction (Proximity and Attraction).
Proximity means you want someone to always be with you or be close to you. People tend to be attracted to other people who live near them or people they see often. Proximity has to do with attraction because if you see someone often or you talk to someone often, you are more likely to get to know each other, become friends, and then start dating. In order to really have feelings for someone and be attracted to them, you have to be near them a lot and see them fairly often. Leon Festinger, and two of his colleagues, Stanley Schachter and Kurt Back, studied proximity in 1950. Their study later on became one of the most famous studies on proximity. They investigated a small community that was part of the campus at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (Proximity and Attraction). They ...

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...ou want will come one day and that good things take time. Also, they might not be grateful of the things they get. If their grateful, they won’t take less than the best and be positive about getting it. Last, is not taking action. The laws of attraction will not just happen in front of your eyes. You have to wait on the right person to come along (The Universal Law of Attraction).
Attraction is a very confusing and difficult thing to concept. It’s way more than just who you like or find attractive, it’s more of a science. Whether it’s someone’s smell, looks, personality, the reason their liked by a person is attraction. Studies show that there are five different types of attraction not including the types of attraction that branch off of the five main types of attraction. People cannot help who they’re attracted to, they just like people they were meant to be with.