Effects Of Child Sexual Abuse

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PSYCHOLOGICAL AFFECTS OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE As a child, there are a lot of things you look forward to. As a child I never had a worry in the world and most of my friends didn’t either. No one ever considers the fact that their child could ever be sexually abused, because most of the time there are no signs to it. A child can be abused in many ways but in my opinion I think sexual abuse is the worst. Child sexual abuse will effects a child for the rest of their lives. Sexual abuse has many long term and short term effects. Sexual abuse involves forcing, tricking, threatening or pressuring a child into sexual awareness or activity. Sexual abuse can be physical, verbal or emotional, and occurs when an older or more knowledgeable child or adult uses a child for sexual pleasure. The abuse often begins gradually and increases over time. It can include sexual touching and fondling or exposing children to adult sexual activity including pornographic movies and photographs. When a kid is sexually abused they can often have trust issues with adults and that is why most wait until they are older to tell people that they were sexually abused. Abusers have been known to tell children that it is the fault of the child that they are abused, shifting the blame away from the abuser and making the child think that they are the ones doing something wrong. Along with this, abusers may threaten or bribe the child into not speaking up. They try convincing the child that no one will ever believe them. The bribes may continue as the child gets older too, maybe giving them money for new things that their parents won’t buy them just so they will continue to keep their mouths shut. Children are taught not to question authority and they believe that adult... ... middle of paper ... ...st circumstances the victim never discussed the abuse with others while it was occurring. Many survivors don’t remember the abuse until years after it happened and may never be able to clearly recall it. After being triggered by a memory, this individual learns how to deal with the effects of the abuse after they’ve entered adulthood. I say this because the only treatment that could help them even begin to deal with this problem is to discuss it with a therapist or counselor of some sort. This way they can get tips of coping with their guilt or shame they may feel from it. Just remember, if you’ve been sexually abused as a child, you are not alone. In fact, 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse. Remember, this is only the sexual abuse that gets reported. Every year there are thousands upon thousands of sexual abuse cases that go unreported.

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