Control In The Glass Menagerie And The Fish By Lila Zeiger

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Synthesis Essay Control is a common theme in literature used in order to teach about the complicated relationships between parent and child, These themes are seen in “The Glass Menagerie” by Tennessee Williams and “The Fish” by Lila Zeiger. In both cases, the authors use parental authority over their kids to show the effects on the identity of the developing mind. In Both the poem and the play, The author uses conflicts between family to illustrate the effects of harsh parental control on the identity of kids.
In both texts there are similar ideas being shown about the alteration of a child’s identity when their parents are overbearing and controlling. Tom, the victim of an over-controlling parent gets frustrated about the current condition
In the Fish, The young girl is naive enough to wait for her mother to come around and love her for who she is, but once again she is pulled from her safety and watches as her mother “reshapes me with your [her] strong hands to simmer in your special broth”(Zeiger 11-12). The girl is being taken and changed as if she's an ingredient in a recipe, instead of being cherished for who she already is and wants to be. The Glass menagerie contains a similar situation when Amanda takes control over Laura's love life.When laura asks to have a say in her own love life her mother believes that “Girls that aren't cut out for business careers usually marry some nice man… that’s what you’ll do!” (Williams 17). Amanda is very controlling so she believes she is entitled to not only mocking her daughter about her failed business career but also taking control of her love life and her future, without even asking laura what she wants. This leads to a change in Laura by the end of the book, just like tom and the girl in The Fish. Laura ends up getting a life lesson out of a set up date by her mother, as she finally interacts with a man that told her the truth and that she needs to take control of her life, and that's what she did. Laura finally had enough courage to feel comfortable around someone else when she has been told she is not good enough her entire life. Clearly since Tom, Laura, and The girl from The Fish all had identity changes because of their parents obsession with controlling their lives, since they either resist their parents for unrealistic requests or realize they are their own person and are perfect the way that they

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