Comparison Of Love In Romeo And Juliet

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Love Stories Present and Future
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness, of hatred, of jealousy, and most easily of all, the gates of fear” (Brainyquotes.com). In Romeo and Juliet these emotions are portrayed throughout this love story. However, these emotions aren’t as present in modern day couples. There are many similarities and differences between Romeo and Juliet to modern day couples. These may include: the age, physical affection, marriage and divorce. To this day many couples are far apart by age; although we do not know Romeo’s age, we know Juliet is quite young. “She’s not fourteen” (1.2.9). In spite of the fact that we don’t have the foggiest idea about Romeo’s age, it is surely the case that men simply choose younger …show more content…

In the 1950s, women married at the age of 20 and men at 23 or even younger. The median age at first marriage has been rising rapidly ever since (businessinsider.com). People were expected to start their lives right after High School. When we are thinking about the 1950s, there were lower divorce rates, and higher number of marriage and birth rates, etc. This was because the men could find a decent job with higher salary and job security even though they did not have college degrees. Women quit their jobs and put all their efforts and time in their nuclear family. This leads to a high degree of dependence on the husband because women did not have jobs at that time. All these lead to low divorce rates, long term family life, and the best situation for children to grow up. In today’s marriage, both spouses have to work in order to financially support their family. The motives of marriage have changed …show more content…

The significance of love is clearly not at the same level of intensity as it is in the twenty first century. Romeo proclaims, “in sadness, I do love women” (1.1.98). By saying this, it shows his great affection for women. Romeo decides to go to a party so that he may recover from a terrible breakup. However, as soon as he lays his eyes on a beautiful and young girl named Juliet Capulet, he completely forgets about Rosaline. He immediately attempts to win her over by taking her hand and touching her “with a tender kiss” (1.5.105). The character Romeo in the story written by Shakespeare, through his actions, exemplifies that falling for someone is an insignificant and easy thing. Romeo even asks Mercutio, “is love a tender thing?” (1.4.26) Today, one cannot simply fall in deep love in an instant with just anyone. There is an obvious gap between medieval love because Juliet is only thirteen and she gets married. Usually in present time it would be very odd to marry a thirteen-year-old. Age plays an important role in Romeo and Juliet and in modern day couples. There were many things that couples couldn’t do such as showing public displays of affection; kissing is very common in present day as well as showing affection for one another. “Then move not, while my prayer effect I take. Thus, from my lips by thine, my sin is purged” (1/5/103-105). This shows Romeo

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