Childhood Experience In Childhood

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Childhood is a big influencer on how someone grows and changes in the process of becoming an adult. I know for a fact my childhood affected me greatly. It has led me to who I am today. When I was 4 years old my mother and father broke up. At the time, I was living with both my mother and my father. We lived in a small run-down apartment in Bloomington. Our household was made up of my mother, father, sister, and I. I am not sure what lead to my mother and father splitting, but I know they had many problems. They had been together 8 years, yet neither of them were happy. When my mother and father split up my sister and I were left with my mother. I remember being upset that my father did not take me with him. I remember crying about it and I also remember my mother punishing me for it. This caused me to believe that it was normal for a father to leave, but when I started preschool I realized that was not the case. I felt very confused when other children would talk about their families. Especially, when they mentioned their fathers. …show more content…

I believe this experience was significant because watching how a child reacts to someone important leaving their life can tell you a lot about them. As an adult, this rule continues, watching how someone responds to large change is a big sign on who they are as a person. This experience, to me, falls into the socioemotional domain. I believe this because the socioemotional domain goes with emotions and attachments. Obviously, I had to deal with my emotions and with my attachment to my father. If I had the chance to change this experience I would not. This is simply because my mother and father did not belong together. They were not

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