Character Analysis: Toby Rosemary

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Rosemary has an inability to be a supporting, loving and providing parent to Toby due to her character flaws, and the expectations of her as a woman in society. Rosemary begins with having absolute faith in her son’s word, as she doesn’t think he can lie to her, and this behaviour is what sends Toby into a spiral of lies that he thinks he can get away with, due to the experiences with his mother. Rosemary is expected as a woman in society to be supported by a man, and make it in the world with a man, which she doesn’t have, and her need to have a “family” drives her to focus of that rather than focusing on being a good parent to her son. Rosemary’s dark past with her father has caused Rosemary not to discipline Toby as she should, making Toby …show more content…

Rosemary’s past isn’t her fault, but her inability to but her past behind her has a negative influence on Toby. Discipline is needed when you have a son like Toby, But Rosemary, who “doesn’t have faith in discipline” fails have any kind of ground rules set down for Toby, and this is due to her awful past with her father, showing us why she cannot be a disciplining, and good parent to Toby. Her influence of her father meant that Rosemary is attracted to “men of a tyrant breed” like Dwight and Roy. Toby then has to live with these awful men who are a corrupting influence on Toby, and this is all because of the influence of Rosemary’s past. Rosemary’s father used to “badger her into smoking cigarettes” and many other things as a child, and as a result in her adulthood is badgered into many bad decisions, like marrying Dwight. These decisions that she gets persuaded into often land her in trouble, which then lands Toby in trouble, hence highlighting gain her inability to put the influences of her past behind her. Since Rosemary cannot discipline Toby herself, when she finally finds out he needs disciplining, she tells toby to “take a ride with Dwight” and uses Dwight to punish Toby instead, which of course is a very scarring experience for Toby’s childhood. The inability Rosemary has with her brutal past carries on into her present, making her unable to be a good parent to

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