Caregivers Influence On Gender Identity

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Gender identity is a world issue and it can affect anyone that is around it or going through it. People who have gender identity are essentially confused about the body they are in. they do not feel comfortable in the body that they were given at birth. People figure it out at any age and in different ways. It is becoming more and more of a social issue and a problem with older generations accepting gender identity. People tend to have more of a negative feedback towards people who have gender identity. They might have a negative response because they don’t understand what the person feels or is going through. The questions is do children who have a negative response from their parents suffer more than those who have accepting parents? Some …show more content…

The caregivers pay a huge part in the psychological aspects for the aftermath of the issue at hand. The caregiver needs to make sure that the child has what he or she needs support wise. They also need to make sure the child is ok at school and isn’t getting bullied for their gender identity. Most importantly the child needs to feel safe and comfortable to be able to grown into their own and accept their situation. The child needs to feel safe for them to fully open up at home about their gender. In an article where parents had set of boy twins but realized that one of their boys was different “My attitude has always been — this is my kid, this is what my kid likes, how can we get some help…” (Kelly, A struggle for acceptance: Gender identity disorder). Having accepting parents and parents that are support make the transition so much easier for a child to go …show more content…

In society gender identity is still looked at in a weird way. People don’t fully accept it, they view it as a wrongdoing. People are trying to protect their children from suffering against bullying and teaching them to fit in society. If you stand out in society then you are viewed wrongly and you will have a much tougher time going through life. Are parents really just protecting the children in the long run? Will the children have a harder time from society or from themselves not being able to fully express themselves? Time article where parents hide their children identity for five years so raise their child without stereotypes, “everyone and their mother seems to have an opinion on it. Critics and Internet commenters (which are practically synonymous these days) have labeled his parents everything from abusive to crazy, with calls that little Sasha should be taken into child services.” These parents were protecting their child and got backlash from society so isn’t better for parents to help their children fit into society rather than to stand

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