Argumentative Essay: The Issue Of Bullying In Our Schools

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Bullying in Schools

Many people feel that some of the major issues that plague our schools are drug/alcohol use or violence, yet no one recognizes the significance of school bullying. For the victims of bullying, they go to school everyday facing harassment, taunting, and humiliation. For all potential educators, it is very important to realize that bullying is a problem, so that they can work to prevent it in the future. Since being at Middle School, I have realized how prevalent bullying is on a daily basis. In addition to reading various sources, I decided to ask some of my students about the bullying they experience or witness in their own school environment. I felt learning about bullying directly from the students would …show more content…

While this is the most common form of bullying, especially with males, many girls experience a different form of bullying. Although it is a more indirect form of bullying, social manipulation is very prevalent within females. Social manipulation can include many actions, including spreading gossip, telling lies, betraying trust, passing notes, ignoring the victim, or excluding the victim (?Bullies?? 2001). Many of the girls said there was a lot of bullying between girls. They said many girls will get bullied if they get a lot of attention from the boys. It seemed as if the girls would get jealous, and then in turn make that girl the object of their bullying. They said the bullying most often consisted of calling names, pulling hair, and occasionally …show more content…

If a child starts looking people in the eye, speaking up and standing up straight they can begin to develop self-confidence. Kids need help developing strategies to deal with the intimidating behavior of their peers, like walking away or telling the bully to stop, but they also need to know that adults can and will come to their aid. A teacher's openness about bullying can give them that assurance (Feldman, 2004). Unfortunately, most of the students at Dunn Middle School felt fighting back was the best solution. One student mentioned going to an adult for help, but another student quickly responded, ?You snitch, you get beat up worse.? One student offered the solution of fighting back and ?get a weapon.? I feel that there has to be a strict punishment for the bullies so the victims can be reassured that the bully won?t continue such

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