Black Women, Beauty And Hair As A Matter Of Being By Cheryl Thompson

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When it comes to body image, according to societal norms, apparently, beauty is about how you look and how others think you look, and not how you feel or what makes you feel beautiful, happy, comfortable, etc. One of the first things you notice about a woman is her hair. I believe every woman is a queen; therefore, she deserves a crown, and her hair can symbolize a crown with power, strength, and beauty. A hair style can be done to match her personality, making it uniquely hers, with none to compare it to. But society even categorizes hair as beautiful and not. In her article (Black Women, Beauty, and Hair as a Matter of Being), Cheryl Thompson states that “hair is not just hair,” and uses this to explain how black beauty is juxtaposed to white …show more content…

This is why there are terms such as “real and fake” black women, “natural or unnatural” black look, “authentic or inauthentic” black style” not simply beautiful (Thompson 835). A fake, unnatural, and inauthentic black women tries to embody the white look, and may be criticized by her family or friends, merely by straightening her natural hair. Yet other members of society may praise her trying to be beautiful, subliminally praising her for wanting to be white. Here, whiteness is synonymous with beauty, straight and sleek and not curly and unruly (Thompson 838). According to social comparison theory (Thompson 838), people tend to compare themselves to others when they are unsure about themselves. Why does hair automatically classify beauty? Diana García writes to her son in her poem telling him to never be ashamed of “being/dark-skinned, your/black waving hair that curls/at the neck” and how “we are/the birds of paradise/against a gold-lit world” (García 98). I believe that hair, skin color, and overall physical features are never something to fear, be ashamed of, or judge others for; they should all be qualities that make every person a beautiful and unique part of

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