Finding Self-Identity after Divorce: A Sociological View

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After watching the movie, Living Out Loud, I was fairly surprised about the sociological issues I found myself pointing out through out the whole film. Every since I have been a sociology major student I find myself pointing out these issues more often than ever before. The basic summary of plot of this film centers on the life of Judith Moore and he attempted at finding out who she is after a divorce from a 16 year old marriage. With the assistance of a club singer named Liz and the elevator operator man from her Fifth Avenue apartment, Patt, Judith tries to pick up the pieces of her life and to become something more in life. As Judith strives to find herself, she must adjust to her newly single lifestyle for being a middle-aged woman and overcome certain obstacles in order to be happy again. One of the problems in todays’ world is defining one’s self in our society without having to give some sort or explanation of why or who you’re with. How can you still be your own individualistic self …show more content…

She met the singer whom she was able to have fun and enjoy her evenings with. Then she was able to talk and joke around with the man who works in her building. Although Patt was looking for something more with his relationship with Judith, all she really wanted was some company and not to be alone. Even though Patt was really trying to capture Judith’s heart, I honestly do not believe he was truly in love with her. I know that he did say he want to love Judith and he was trying to love her but I believe that it was more his need to not be alone as well. Judith was just more honest with her feelings towards him when she just wanted to be friends. He had gone through a lot of personal problems in his life and he confused the need for finding a partner with the need for a friend. Judith did not want to be stuck in another relationship once again like her pervious

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