Analysis Of Snapping Beans By Lisa Parker

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I took the poem “Snapping Beans” by Lisa Parker and personalized it. I took her original meaning about feeling homesick, and turned it into a poem about feeling the exact opposite of being homesick: joyfulness about being in a new environment that is more inclusive and open-minded towards LGBTQ+ people. My response poem draws heavily from my personal experience as a gay person raised in a small conservative town in the South by a religious family. While it might seem like at first that I resent my family members back home, I chose to include the line about the “slow-simmering guilt of leaving everyone I love behind despite finally being happy” to show that I still value and love them the people that I spent my formative years with. While I …show more content…

As I got older, and once my stink as a “social justice warrior” (which only extended to a certain point, and never at my family members houses) ended, I began to view them as everyone else: flawed humans. We’re all flawed human, and I am no exception, and some people just need time to learn and accept other people who are different from them. Harvey Milk once said that “Every gay person must come out. As difficult as it is, you must tell your immediate family. You must tell your relatives. You must tell your friends if indeed they are your friends. You must tell the people you work with. You must tell the people in the stores you shop in. Once they realize that we are indeed their children, that we are indeed …show more content…

The narrator talks about how her new life at, assumedly, college and how it is different from the raising that she had. She talks about “[crying] into the familiar heartsick panels of the quilt she made me, wishing myself home on the evening star.” In my poem, I also talk about how my life in college is different than what my family back home might expect from me, but I, however, do not view this with sadness like Parker’s character does. What was originally just a poem about being homesick, is now one with social commentary. The purpose of my poem, however, is not the same as the small-town-gay-boy-moves-far-away-and-never-sees-his-family-again story, but a story that I feel is more realistic. For many LGBTQ+ people, financial dependence on our parents/family requires us to remain civil with queerphobic family members, regardless of any hard feelings we might have towards

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