Analysis Of A Good Man Is Hard To Find By Flannery O Connor

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Reading “A Good Man is Hard to Find” by Flannery O’Connor evoked emotions in me that ranged from amusement, to anger, to surprise, to pity, to empathy. After reading the story several times, there were two themes that stood out to me. The first theme was evident early in the story as it is apparent there is a breakdown in the family unit. There is a lack of communication and respect within the family unit. These are two crucial elements that make for a happy family life where everyone feels loved and valued. As the grandmother, (the matriarch of the family), speaks and interacts with the other members of her family. The disconnect is seen as they show little to no regard in valuing each other's opinion or position within the family. Bailey …show more content…

The parent’s indifference to the grandmother seems to provoke and encourage the children’s disrespect and aloofness toward her. Bailey or his wife, at no time, correct or discipline the children for their blatant disrespect for their grandmother; the children talk to her and about her as if they are her equal. June Star also speaks inappropriately to Red Sam’s wife when she told her, “I wouldn’t live in a broken-down place like this for a million bucks!” (Kirszner and Mandll, 2012, pg. 299). Even then, Bailey nor his wife exercised proper parenting skills to make this a teachable moment as to the proper way to address an adult. Also, the manner in which Red Sam and his wife speak to each other seemed to allude to possible marital and/or communication issues, as …show more content…

Through out the story, the grandmother gives off the air of being prudish and proper and good Christian lady, but ironically she does not take stance from God’s definition of a “good man” when referring to either man. According to Christian values, a "good man" would be a man of integrity and honesty, a man who values others and deals fairly with others, a man who is concerned about and with others, a man who is careful with his speech to build up and not tear down, a man who trust in God and knows the difference between good and evil (Christ, 2011). It appears in each instance that the grandmother speaks these words to them, in her mind, it seems appropriate. Her assessment of Red Sammy being good appears to be based on the fact that they agree as the grandmother says, “people are certainly not nice like they used to be.” Her referring to the Misfit as being a “good man,” seems to be an attempt to get on his good side to save her life. By his own admission, the Misfit declared, “Nome, I ain’t a good man,” and soon thereafter, shot grandmother dead himself (Kirszner and Mandll, 2012, pg. 305). This too mirrors the disregard for the life of others that seems to be widespread among the criminal element in today’s society’s. A malefactor would just as quickly shoot and kill today with no remorse just like the Misfit in “A Good Man is Hard to

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