Nearly everyone in the United States knows something about adoption. Some people believe that if you give your child up for adoption that you are a terrible human being. I believe that in certain circumstances it is in the child’s best interest to be placed with a new family. Many people face difficult times in their life and sometimes it is not the best circumstance for them to have a child or many children. And in other circumstances two people are very well fit to be parents but are unable to conceive a child. In my opinion, adoption is a great thing; it allows children the opportunity to have a better life and for adults with health issues to be blessed with a child, or children.
There are a multitude of stories in the world involving
Or take into consideration the story of the mother who gave up her son but still gets to be a large part of his life thanks to an open adoption.
As someone who has an adoration for kids, it is very intriguing to me to hear stories of children being adopted and put into better situations. Adoption isn’t an easy process, it takes a long time and much paperwork, that is why there are so many kids in foster homes and orphanages, which is depressing. Can you imagine being familyless? My best friend has benefitted from adoption along with many others, I only mentioned a few stories. I stand for Adoption because i’ve faced it on a personal level. Take adoption to a personal level for yourself. Think of how you would feel if you were in a bad situation in life and could not care for a child, but you found out you were expecting. Would you abort the fetus or put the infant up for adoption? You could help a couple love a child that they could not conceive themselves by going through with an adoption. If you and your spouse could not conceive a child but wanted to, would you like for someone to offer you their child that they could not care for? In this circumstance you could help that child grow up in a good home with a good life. Why would anyone be against helping others, especially children? I stand for Adoption for the many obvious reasons. I also understand that some people disagree with adoption and that is fine because everyone is allowed their own
When a couple or individual decides to adopt a child, they know they are going to take on the responsibility of taking care of someone else’s child. Due to the biological parent(s) who can’t take care of that child anymore, because of either drug abuse, alcohol abuse, abuse to the child or if the parent(s) had died and there is no other care for the child. So that’s why this gives other couples who cannot have kids, the opportunity to promise themselves to be a great parent to a child in need. Though there are some bad things about adoption as well. Like adopting a child from another country of another race, because once that child is adopted into an American family, he or she will be cut off from their culture and never know about their history. Everyone should to know about their culture and history.
Some people who are for abortion say that the baby can be put up for adoption. While they can be, there are already four hundred thousand children up for adoption in the United States of America. Only, one fourth of those kids are waiting
I view my adoption as something that has given me a loving family and amazing opportunities. I didn’t choose to be adopted, but others don’t choose to be born into their family. I just happened to get lucky. However, some people view my adoption with sympathy. They see me as the result my parents’ infertility. Since my parents couldn’t have a kid of their own, they decided to do the next best thing. Thus, my adoption was Plan B. How ironic? These different views on my adoption result in varied reactions from others, which always make for interesting
Since the beginning of time, people have been adopting. Whether or not the adoption process is for everybody is a debatable topic. Adoption occurs all over the world and is the cause for an impact on not only the children being adopted, but also an impact on those who adopt. Whether it’s nationally on internationally adoption is everywhere and will continue to grow in popularity as the years go on.
Adoption is in place to balance, to nurture and create a structural environment of safety in which the child can thrive and develop into a productive individual contributing to society. Also, it allows older children to abandon old maladaptive behaviors and make their first steps toward the construction of new behaviors influenced by their new environment. In years past, parents who adopted a child as an infant often debated whether to tell him or her about the adoption. Many children grew up not knowing they were adopted, and the birth mother’s identity was kept secret from those who did know (Ashford, LeCroy and Lortie 249). This paper provides facts on widely acceptance option of open adoption rather than the traditional practice of closed adoption. Adoption separates real biological family members, removing the adopter heritage whether the adoption is open or closed. Open adoption can lead to problems, but there are proven facts that open adoption is the best option for all parties working together in the best interest of the children.
... to have at any given take not only this it deserves it. If you cannot afford for an adoption the person adopting shouldn’t be having one, this will help prevent homelessness for the millenniums to come.
“Pro choice is not set on abortion” (head, 2015, para.20); the movement focuses on the choice the parents believe will give their child the best opportunity. Adoption should always be considered before the abortion which the article does not include. Many women who do have health issues and cannot have children try to adopt, yet the process is long and tiring. While attempting to adopt a couple may overcome the issue of not finding a proper set of parents who they personally enjoy to be the birth parents of the child they are wanting to receive. If a healthy pregnant woman fits the criteria of a family looking to adopt, then she should try to consider that option if she was looking to abort
...my child up for adoption here are some of my personal reasons. The main reason cannot afford to raise a child, I would want to give my child all the necessary support,( emotionally & physically), might just be a set back as far as educationally and professionally and last the child was conceived while being in an abusive relationship.
Many women who carry unexpected or unwanted children are left to decide between keeping the child, adoption, abortion and maybe foster care. Most of the time the decision is just between adoption and abortion. In that case, the mother is losing the child either way. Most of the time choosing adoption or foster care would be a better choice than abortion because the pregnancy would end by giving life instead of death. Adoption and foster care are an opportunity for people who wish to be parents, but are not able to have a child of their own to finally become parents or people who have children of their own, but want to add-on to their family.
Parents have the tendency to overlook how lucky they are to have had the ability to create their own children. Many do not recognize what a true blessing it is to have kids, and that others are not fortunate enough to experience that miracle. Ten percent of couples endure infertility (Advantages) so they must consider other options. A very popular choice is adoption. It is not only a good alternative for the couple, but also for the child who needs a loving home.
Fleming, Caroline B. "The open-records debate: balancing the interests of birth parents and adult adoptees." William & Mary Journal of Women and the Law Spring (2005): 461-480. Academic OneFile. Web. 17 Feb. 2012.
I believe that an adopted child has more hurdles in developing than a biological child. I also believe that a child who is adopted later in life will have more issues than those are adopted earlier in life will have. I also believe that if the foster parents and adopted parents are have good intentions and work together the child will be able to complete each stage successfully.
Adoption has been around for many years, and recently gay adoption has been asked by many people. There are many children in the world that need somebody, but there is not enough families or parents to take them in. There aren’t that many families who can and will adopt children. Some families can’t support them, they have children of their own that they need to support, or they just don’t want children. Gay adoption is a solution that will help find the children a great home. There are many openly gay couples that will love to adopt children. Its’s still illegal for homosexual couples to adopt children in some areas of the U.S, let alone the world. Across our country, and in other countries, there are children awaiting adoption and eager parents
Or what about a situation where a child you closely know is in need of a loving family? Maybe you were adopted, or your life has been deeply touched by adoption. Wouldn 't you want to benefit others lives in the same way? Now of course there are numerous hardships and dangers of adoption as well. The process of adoption can take anywhere from quite a few months to several years. You must connect with adoption agencies, complete home studies, submit important documents, and fill out possibly endless amounts of paperwork. The financial implications can also be quite large for the different required services to become an adoptive family. Also, when adopting, you don 't always know what you are getting yourself into. What health or behavioral issues will my new child have? Will they be strong and healthy? Or was their birth mother irresponsible during pregnancy causing developmental issues? All these aspects from how to adopt, why to adopt, and hardships of adoption will factor into ones decision to adopt and pursuing that decision, or
The best things in life come free to us. Our parents are one of the most important and fundamental in our life. However, people generally wonder, do adopted children feel the same way we do? Adoption is not easy, it's full of risks, simply because no one is aware of the future, the person adopting a child will never know how the child will react once he's aware he's adopted. Will they grow to love them, hate them, admire them or fear them? All of these unanswerable questions makes any person think twice before having the courage to adopt. Adoption never fails to put down any parents' feelings, whether they were homeless, abandoned, poor or runaway children and also families who don't have the option of being biological parents, the pleasure it gives to all of those people exceeds all of it's expected problems. However; adoption has some positive sides. It's one of life's fair treaties. It gives hope and integrity to the families who weren't fortunate to conceive; moreover, it changes the life of the child forever mostly positively. That's why many people support adoption worldwide.