Abelard Vs. Heloise

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Abelard and Heloise were both intellectual individuals. Abelard was a teacher and philosopher and Heloise was considered the most learned woman in the France of her time. They both thought their writing mattered. However, Heloise “often wrote as if the world depended on each sentence” (Letters, p. xii). Abelard and Heloise argumentative both are similar in many ways. Heloise backs up her opinion in various ways; through scripture, personal experience, etc. In the same way, Abelard cites numerous scripture. Heloise is blunt and factual whereas Abelard is not; he avoids the question Heloise asked in her first letter. Heloise wanted to know if Abelard really loved her or was it just lust. She states in the first letter, “tell me if you can, and …show more content…

Heloise begs and pleads, whereas Abelard ignores and avoids. Heloise begs throughout her letters to Abelard. Heloise begs for Abelard to spare her and the sisters of the convent any more words of death because “where you [Abelard] owed comfort you have only brought more sorrow, and when you should have dried our tears you have made them flow the faster” (Letters, p. 71). Heloise begs for Abelard to write her and the sisters. Heloise begs for Abelard to think of what he owes her. Heloise begs for Abelard to remember what she asked. Heloise begs Abelard to grant her his presence in writing. Heloise begs Abelard to write her addressing her question. Heloise begs Abelard to not presume anything about her. Heloise begs Abelard to stop praising her because she is not holy. Heloise begs Abelard to not put any trust in her. Abelard writes as if he has not had any feelings for Heloise, ever. He addressed her as “his sister” (Letters, p. 67). Yes, Heloise is a sister because she’s in a convent where she became a nun. However, I think he was doing it not only out of respect but also to indirectly tell her that she means nothing to him anymore. I don’t think that he meant to hurt Heloise the way he did but he wanted her to realize that what they have is going to be difficult to maintain while they are both in convent. He wanted her to come to …show more content…

xxiv). Heloise accuses herself of hypocrisy because on the outside she was an obedient nun but on the inside she was devoted to Abelard, not God. Heloise, however, is no hypocrite “since her letters are public acts, outward declarations of her inner deposition” (Letters, p. xxiv). Throughout her letters, Heloise remained faithful to Abelard. “There wasn’t any hint of a conversion of her devotion from Abelard to God” (Letters, p. xxiv). In the third letter, Heloise points out that she isn’t being a dutiful nun. She is haunted by the memories of their sexual escapades. When she is supposed to be focusing on Holy Mass, she instead is focusing on “unholy fantasies of pleasure” (Letters, p. 79). People judge what they see from the outside but although that is not how it is supposed to be. “They count purity of the flesh among the virtues though the virtue belongs to the heart and not the body” (Letters, p. 80). She claims that she does not deserve any praises from neither God nor Abelard because she is not the holy woman she is perceived to

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