7 Hours Analysis

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Well, here you are. The unimaginable, unthinkable, and devastating has happened, and the relationship that you were certain was going to be the stuff of fairy tales has exploded into tiny fragments and is now over. Now, I have no idea what your story is, or whether you were prepared for this, whether you saw the breakup coming or how invested you were in making it work. What I do know is that no matter the situation, the first week is always the hardest. One Week. Seven Days. 168 Hours. 10,080 minutes. While is impossible to completely move on after losing someone you loved in a single week there are steps you can take to make sure that these seven days don’t destroy you, mangle your psyche and that you come out on the other side ready to tackle all of the days to come. …show more content…

This is going to suck a lot, but much like ripping off a Band-Aid, it’s always better to get the hurt over with now than experience it over and over every time you have to move his/her belongings around your apartment. Arrange a time for him/her to pick up their belongings, or take them directly to where s/he is staying. Choose whichever method works best for you. Having a mutual (neutral) friend there with you might make it an easier transaction. Just remember to stay strong and not give in to emotion. There is a reason you two split (whether you or s/he chose it). You will also want to make sure that if your ex has any keys to you place or car that you get them back ASAP. The last thing you need is your ex showing up uninvited to your home or going psycho and stealing your ride. Take the evening to rearrange things so that any empty areas are filled with your own possessions. You are a whole person on your own, and you don’t want blank space making you feel as though you are

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