Relationships can work with the right ingredients! This paper will define the elements of an effective relationship and the strains pulling on those relations daily. Acknowledging those components could improve the quality and success of the relationship. Historically, relationships go back to the beginning of time. Relationships are governed by commandments and traditions.Keep in mind, background is a huge influence on people actions in a relationship. Relationship is defined as a correlation by blood or matrimony.
The evolution of relationships keeps evolving with times. For example, the relationship between man and man or woman and woman was unaccepted. In today society, a same gender relationship is acceptable. Reflecting back, a relationship between a man and woman was considered normal. The man played the dominant role in the relationship. Meanwhile, the woman role was to be submissive to her husband. Totally, different in today world!
Over the years, roles have reversed dramatically amongst man and woman. Case and point, women have taken on more responsibility in the workforce and home life. The men have relinquishes some or most of their control. Exchanging roles in a relationship without expressing feeling can cause havoc. Unfortunately, some partners do not want to let go of the idea of not being in control. In fact, most people will do almost anything for the control title.
Without delay, relationships can only survive through using the elements of an effective relationship and pointing out those issues daily straining pulls. There are so many ways to improve relationships. Often times, relationships are strained because of people attitudes. In order to have a successful relationship people must be open to change. Fi...
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...rties involved. Lastly, the honeymoon should be used to reflect back on what brought the relationship together. The elements of an effective relationships and managing daily pull strains to stay out of divorce court.
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