Initially published in 1845 by Dr. Benjamin Spock, The Common Sense Guide to Baby and Child Care revolutionized parenting, and thus, the upbringing of an entire generation and those following. As society changed, new editions of the original handbook emerged to fit the lifestyle of the current population. Dr. Spock wrote seven editions of The Common Sense Guide to Baby and Child Care alongside a prestigious pediatrician, Steven Parker, before his death in 1998. I read the ninth addition of the manual, revised by pediatrician Dr. Robert Needleman, which includes modern-day ideas such as eating disorders in teenagers and applying to college. Prior to the first section of the manual, Dr. Spock speaks about the challenges of parenthood: accepting your child as he or she is, remembering to leave time for you and your significant other every now and again, and the possibility of raising a child with special needs. Because this is essentially a universal idea, it is relevant to the AP United States History course, like “history repeats itself.” The first section of the manual describes “Your Child, Age by Age,” beginning with the pregnancy phase, childproofing and preparing the home, a checklist of equipment to purchase, and reassuring siblings of the new family member and what it means for them. If I were the sibling, inevitably, feelings of jealousy will emerge, along with a small, guilty resentment toward my parents. However, just because the newborn will demand more attention from the parents, does not mean they will love the sibling any less. Challenges of having a newborn are discussed specifically, particularly feelings of initial regret by the parent and the baby’s individuality. These feelings of regret could be emphasized str... ... middle of paper ... ...ich way he or she learns best to optimize learning. A small section on college planning toward the end of the section, as it comes with the end of adolescence, by Dr. Needleman. Finally, a guide on common medications, both brand and prescription names, are included at the very end of Dr. Spock’s Baby and Child Care for the parent’s convenience. Overall, the guide has been popular with parents since its publishing in 1945, for obvious reasons. Dr. Spock’s Baby and Child Care will change over time along with society, but the themes of parenting will always remain universal. Likewise, as the United States history continues to develop, future generations will make changes as they see fit; however, they will be careful to preserve the themes that have made America what it is today: liberty, freedom, balance, and many others, making it relevant to the US History course.
The book begins by providing insight into his mother’s pregnancy, noting the difficult decisions she
Did your mother read to you when you were six weeks old? Did she teach you how to do math problems when you were two? Recently, I read an issue of Parenting Magazine and found an article on child development. Kathleen Parker’s article, “First Three Years Aren’t That Critical” tells us that parents today are putting to much emphasis on what the media and medical journals are saying, instead of using common sense. The article emphasizes that parents are going overboard on these new studies using good argumentative techniques. Although I found not all of what she said was accurate, I still felt she got her point across. Parker uses evidence from scientists and medical books, to further persuade the reader to side with her opinion. Parker uses good persuasive techniques by showing that not everything you read in the media about child development is true or factual. Parker also shows that she is not one-sided on the issue and gives a personal comment about the opposing viewpoint. I feel the author proved her point that parents are being ridiculous in how they are raising their child these days.
Hall, Carla. "Taking Parenting a Step at a Time Education" Los Angeles Times 19 Nov.1994: 1
“Parenting by the book” was an incredible read because was written to inspire and empower the parents to raise well-mannered and courteous children; of competence and character, children whose decisions are consistent with the fundamental teachings of Christian morality. The book talks about biblical wisdom for parents raising their children. The author and family psychologist, John Rosemond, describes raising children using biblical principles to raise children. The Bible tells us how to raise a child and, people were using this model - even if they weren 't Christian- to raise children, and they have turned out to be hard working, respectful people, not like people today who were raised with a different model and can 't seem to survive on their own. Rosemond was very clear with his principles, he goes on to say that children today are so much worse than 30 or 40 years ago- because parents are made to feel guilty for "hurting a child 's feeling" or "not bonding effectively" or worse yet, "disciplining" our
Dr. Benjamin McLane Spock was born on May 2, 1903. Dr. Spock was an American pediatrician and author of The Common Sense Book on Baby and Child Care. His book has been sold around the world and translated into 42 languages. Dr. Spock wanted parents everywhere to just go with their common sense, because he believed that it was the right and proper way to care for children. Dr. Spock made a lasting impact on mothers everywhere. Many say that Dr. Spock’s book is second best to the Bible in popularity. Generation after generation is being raised off of Dr. Spock’s beliefs and customs.
Topics entailed in the book dwells on: first, getting ready and set which touches on talking with parents, gathering essential documents, researching the options, organizing your own life and when you can’t be there. Secondly, your parent and you that entails; adoption of the new role, knowing when to intervene, to defuse old struggles, managing day to day and the difficult parent. Third, caring for the caregiver. Fourth, healthy aging, heart, mind and soul. Five, tips for daily living and more help at home. Six, the inner circle. Seven, the doctor’s dos and don’ts. Eight, the body imperfect and matters of the mind. Nin, paying the way and paying for healthcare and tenth, legal issues as well as home away from home.
“No cost nor labour did I spare” is a phrase every mother lives by. It shows that a mother loves her children so much that she will give anything up just so her children can reach success in life. The way this is written suggests that there was no thought involved in making this decision, the mother did not even think about it for a second, she knew immediately that she would not spare any cost or labor for her child. Anne Bradstreet is the author who wrote this, suggesting that the most important thing in her entire life is her kid’s success in life. In the poem “In Reference to Her Children,” author Anne Bradstreet demonstrates her love for her children by raising her children with pain and care, watching concernedly her children grow up, and wanting to be with them in the afterlife.
Across family life-cycle literature, the arrival of a first child into the marital structure is considered to be one of the most common and key stages a family will experience during its development. Further, it also possesses the potential to be one of the most stressful examples of change within the marital relationship with the experience of having a baby being ranked at 6th out of 102 stressful life events1.
The information presented during this course has increase my knowledge and experience about my role as an early childhood educator. The resources presented helped me to learn ways to promote healthy development and well-being of all children and how to be an advocate for them. I believe this class enriched my knowledge about infant-toddler care and education to the point that I would most like to express to others its importance. One thing that I would like to share is that infant–toddler care and education is crucial for physical and cognitive development. The caregiver/parent interaction is necessary for the children to keep alive the desire for communication and learning. I would like to express to others that we should keep in mind at all times that children are unique individuals that deserve care and respect. The caregiver should be a role model from day one, so the child will learn to copy her, and later on impart the same behavior to others. She should interact with the children to develop a relationship that will help the child to express feelings and emotions in a nice way. Also, I would like to express the importance of teamwork. Parents and caregivers need to work together in developing relationships to promote healthy development for children. According to Mary Benson McMullen and Susan Dixon, “ Each family and professional must learn to work and make decisions together to support the child’s healthy development and to ensure the family’s well-being” (McMullen & Dixon, 2006). In my opinion caregivers need to start developing the relationship with the parents from day one, and supporting their wishes on what they prefer for their child. One way of doing this is by respecting thei...
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Having a safe and healthy childcare setting is one of the most important duties in a daycare. Educators practising good healthy procedures is a good way for children to learn about healthy choices as educators are, good role models.
Observation is very important in young children because that is how you get to know a child better. While observing how a child interacts with their peers, adults, and how they behave in different settings, you are getting to know the child without speaking to them.
For every child born there is a different set of characteristics set for them. First borns tend to be the leaders of the family. They are the ones that turn out to be newscasters or presidents (Neal,1). They are well organized, scholarly, and usually perfectionists (leman,27). Also, parents tend to favor the first born over the others because of their achievements and hardworking attitude (Vowels,1). The first and second child will become complete opposites (Vowles,1) A second child is the trouble maker of the family. They feel less important than the rest of the children (Neal,1). They have strong relationships with their friends because they feel they cannot share things with their family members and are not valued in the family (kelger,). Second children help avoid conflict and keep the family members out of fights (Leman,28). They are expected to live up to the oldest which to have self esteem issues and makes it hard for them to open up to anyone (Kluger). This child has the most varied char...
Child Care workers are very active because of the need to maintain a safe playful environment. Skills I may need include dressing and changing diapers. My communication skills will be important because I may have to talk to parents about their kids and their daily activities. I may be involved in planning the children’s meals and their activities. There are things I might have to do at the end of the day after the kids leave, for example, sanitize the toys, clean the day care, and vacuum.
By our first birthday, fifty percent of essential qualities needed to survive are developed. About twenty percent of all child development is completed, and this is not only physically but also intellectually, linguistically, emotionally, and socially. The infant is truly a remarkable creature. We, as adolescents, still struggle to learn new material, yet as a baby everything is new. We are open to it, though, at that age. To think, we were all infants at one point. Child development during the first twelve months is the most determining segment of a person’s life.