A Social Butterfly Person

Introduction

A Social Butterfly is used to describe someone that is popular. Often times those peoples

are friendly. It is not always used to describe popularity alone; it could also be describing

someone who is friendly to strangers. Social Butterfly is a person who’s good in socializing with

others. “The big message is that your brain is reflecting your current social environment, and

your social skills. Our brain is flexible and reflexing all of these behaviours”(Maryana Noonan

2013). Being a Social Butterfly makes you a better person. You have the confidence to interact

with others. Social butterfly is someone who is very social and easy going. And to be a good

sociable person, you should start developing your social skills. Socialization is act accordance to

the feedback and reactions they get from others. We learn who we are by family, friends and

people around us. (Sawyer 2005)

Start developing your social skills

These are some of the good skills that make you a better social person such as, making

your personality shine through. You should have self-confidence, be optimistic and just be

yourself don’t let others step on you. “You know you lose a lot of social skills if you’re a writer.

You spend too long alone. And it’s forced me to address that” (Anthony Mongrella 2002). The

next skill is being interested in the other person. Try to make friends with different people, treat

others as you would like them to treat you and be a good listener. You should have less mouth

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and more ears. Try to interact with socially skilled people and observe them. And lastly is being

funny, you should have a sense a humour because having one makes other people like to be with

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