A Man's View of Women

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When Tinie Tempah, an English rapper, said, “At the end of the day, I'm a human being and I just think that's what it is. Challenging stereotypes by just being that I am,” he known that at the end of the day society cannot define who he is as a person. Tempah lived with challenges of being an English African rapper that faced the discrimination of society. Society shot down his dreams of being a rapper by stereotyping because of his English accent. Tempah can relate to the women stereotyping because he knows the emotional Rolla coaster one goes through when being labeled. In today’s American society, femininity has been expressed through media in various ways—in Lil Wayne’s “Love Me” music video— and lately the ideal woman is being portrayed as sexually submissive, weak, and dependent on men, causing women to believe this is what strong, wealthy, and powerful men really want, which makes women have less confidence and not strive for anything better.
Media tends to have a very narrow definition of women, stereotyping that they only exist for the sexual pleasure of men, making them look submissive, weak, and dependent on men. A woman is labeled “weak” when she does not know her worth in the world and allows men to use her body without providing her with a committed relationship. A man thinks that the ideal image of a woman is one that is “submissive,” which is a female he can just walk all over and not have to consider her feelings and wishes. A woman who is “dependent” is a woman that relies on someone else for support. They are considered to have no willpower to succeed and achieve their own goals, which men feed off of. These women fall into the perfect category for men because they want women that will do anything to be with the...

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...ties women can offer. Society should respect women and be more educated on the facts about why women turn to abuse and see their selves as not valuable in the world. These stereotypes on women are dangerous leading women to harm themselves because men do not value them. Women fall victims to abusive relationships and living under a stereotype that was created for them. Women give birth to men and for a man not to respect a woman is disappointing. All men should look at women they exploit as their mother or sister because I’m sure they would not want someone they love to be labeled as weak or dependent on a man. Men should be more involve in asking women how they feel on certain situations. Rappers today should portray women in a positive way in society so that young boys can learn to appreciate women. Media has a lot of influence on how society views stereotypes.

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