During this course, I have learned a lot about negotiating. We learned about almost every negotiating technique there is. We learned about cross-cultural negotiations, body language, Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement (BATNA), variables in negotiating, and many more. Before this course, I did not know that much about negotiating. I thought that negotiating was just about trading or convincing someone to give you what you want and you did not care about the other side, resulting in a win-lose. I now know that negotiating is about getting what you want, but also giving the other side what they want as well to result in a win-win. This paper is about how I am going to improve my negotiating skills over the next six months. In order for me to improve my negotiating skills, I believe I need to improve the following skills- my body language, communication, planning, and my interpersonal communications. By improving those skills, I can become an effective negotiator. To negotiate effectively I need to use the proper body language during a negotiation. I never really thought of body language in negotiating before this course. I never paid attention to my body language in …show more content…
I know I need to work hard to improve my body language, by changing my bad habits and making them into good habits. Communication, by practicing talking slow and improving my writing skills. Planning, by doing research when needed and having a clear plan when going into a negotiation. Lastly my interpersonal communication, by continuing this negotiation, but being more aware of how to construct the negotiation. I will need to create and find opportunities that will change how I negotiate. I am at the beginning stages of a negotiator and over the next six months I will continue to grow and eventually over the course of my life will become as close to a master negotiator that I can
Communication skills are important in professional negotiations and in personal life. This book discusses why we find some dialogue difficult, why we avoid it, and why we often address it ineffectively. Most important, the authors suggest methods for more effective, productive, and rewarding, interaction.
Lewicki, J. R., Barry, B., & Saunders, M. D. (2011). Essentials of negotiation (5th ed.). New York, NY: McGraw Hill. ISBN-13: 9780073530369
The book Getting Past No by William Ury starts with an overview of negotiation and the reality of amateur negotiating which almost always end with the dreaded No. It also discusses the importance of negotiation and its impact in our daily lives. Truly, one cannot start and end the day with no negotiating taking place, from the kind of meal we partake to trying to haggle with the parents for a later sleeping time. As Ury states, negotiation is the process of back-and-forth
In order to reach a mutually satisfactory agreement in an efficient and amicable fashion, this book introduces us the strategy of breakthrough negotiation. The breakthrough strategy is counterintuitive: it requires us to do the opposite of what we might naturally do in difficult situations. In addition, the essence of the breakthrough strategy is indirect action. Rather than trying to break down opponent's resistance, we
Negotiations are a part of daily life whether we are aware of them occurring or not. In everything that we do there are preferred end results and the end results are likely to affect more than one person. The goal in this however, is to ensure that all parties are equally benefited from the actions and reactions that occur to create that end result. While some dealings are done in a more subtle manner without a great deal of negotiation per say there are other situations that would warrant more vocalized mutually acceptable compromises. The purpose of this paper will be to effectively explain a situation of which required negotiation on the part of both parties that almost all of us have endured and that would be the process of buying a vehicle.
In understanding the way that people negotiate, I believe that men and women negotiate differently. After the Mark Trask negotiation during class, I noticed that women draw on more examples or comparisons when negotiating. The reason for comparisons or examples might be that women feel as though their counterpart might be more likely to understand a position or opinion if they hear something that is relatable to them. On the other hand, men might be more likely to not engage in this technique because they see that sticking to the relevant information and not elaborating will get them to an agreement quicker.
Lewicki, R. J., Saunders, D. M., & Barry, B. (2010). Negotiation Readings, Exercises and Cases (6th ed.). New York, NY, US: McGraw-Hill.
Lewicki, J. R., Barry, B., & Saunders, M. D. (2006). Negotiation: Readings, Exercises and Cases (5th ed.). New York: McGraw Hill.
Negotiation, as we’ve learned, is the process of communicating where parties can discuss problems and/or targets and attempt to solve them via dialogue in order to reach a resolution. While many individuals feel successful negotiations are due to a natural skill, the truth behind reaching a prime agreement is preparation. You need to know the issue, know yourself, and know your party. This type of preparation also includes knowing your needs and limits, understanding what the other party wants and anticipating their limits, asking the right questions, and being creative in your counteroffers.
Lewicki, R. J., Saunders, D. M., & Barry, B. (2010). Negotiation: Readings, exercises, and cases. New York: McGraw-Hill Irwin
To begin with, we understood the meaning of the term “negotiation” – it is a conversation between people/parties with an aim to reach some outcome: conclusion, decision, deal and etc.. Negotiation will not bring positive outcomes always, sometimes parties can stay with the own opinion without reaching some common point, thus we need to study this course and learn how to increase chances to negotiate successfully. “You always can learn and become a negotiator” – J. Mitts .
McCarthy, A. (n.d.). 10 rules of negotiation. Negotiation Skills. Retrieved March 31, 2014, from http://www.negotiation-skills.org
...w to apply these tactics into practice. Understanding the meaning of each tactics is just the first stage, flexibility in the use of appropriate tactics in future issues is more important. Besides, I need to make a detailed plan before the negotiation. Firstly, analyzing the interests, perspectives and weak points of the opposite side and selecting suitable tactics. Secondly, preparing several response strategies will help me to control the situations. Thirdly, setting the minimum level what I can agree on the issue is also essential part of negotiation.
There is no secret to achieve the ideal negotiation, as it is handed to us in simple strategies by so many experienced individuals. The personality and character traits of each person will require different approaches. However, it is a study that everyone should attempt to use. As with all the steps mentioned in this article and many more founded by experienced mentors all around the world, it goes down to the skills of the negotiator, someone who can study these strategies and apply them flawlessly to a variety of
However, general negotiation skills can be learned and applied in a wide range of activities. Negotiation skills can be of great benefit in resolving any differences that arise between you and others.